My Goals to Help Me Be A Better Mom
- Make sure that there is something scheduled for the kids to do every day (story time, library, park on nice days, indoor play areas if possible)
- Have a plan in place for the day
- Make sure that nap/quiet time happens
- Make time to clean and organize the house
- Make a weekly, if not monthly dinner plan
- Schedule some creative time for me
- Try to schedule playdates for the kids (and for me too)
I have very slowly realized that I need to have a plan in place for me to feel comfortable and not overwhelmed. After looking over all that has happened in the last 5 years, I am amazed that I am actually as sane as I am (not that it's saying much). I like order. I don't like to be completely rigid, but I do like to feel someehat organized, and when I'm not, I get totally overwhelmed and I can't get back there easily. So, my goal is to slowly start getting things back in order so that there is a plan to my day. I figure if I do things slowly, I won't get overwhelmed and give up like I usually do. My goal is to make changes that will last, not changes that happen for a short time and end up getting forgotten about because it is just all too much.
Amy
I spent a lot of time over Christmas break trying to get myself organized. With the help of a label maker, a husband who desperately wanted to purge a lot of things, and a couple of key organization bins, I'm on my way.
ReplyDeleteI also created a monthly meal planner if you're interested...it's a word doc, so all you have to do is fill in your information. I've also left space for AM/PM activities. Just email me. Glad to hear you're getting your normal back...I don't think it really happens for 2 years after having twins...argghhhhh!!!
It's so easy to feel overwhelmed with kids, work, a house to take care of, meals to plan, etc, etc, etc... But your goals seem like good ones- not too big and all in the name of making things more manageable and/or fun. Good luck!
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